Tips To Pick Up Women In The Bars

It is not as hard as you might think to pick up a woman. You can do this anywhere, not just at parties, anywhere were women are is a potential pick-up site. Try the ideas you will learn in this article and try time on every women you meet, even the ones that are not your type, and soon you will be a natural at picking up women.

The first thing you need to do when you see a woman you find attractive is make eye contact with her. Not an intense stare, which might scare her, but just eye contact. Then apply the ‘3 second rule’. Three seconds after you notice the woman, start a conversation with her. If you don’t know what to say, start with a very neutral opinion line. Ask her a question that has nothing to do with you. In reality, what you say is not really that important. If you have confidence, women will notice this.

Do you best to keep the conversation flowing at a natural, relaxed rate. This is not an interview. Try to think of some stories that share something interesting about yourself. Use humor, it relaxes everyone and makes you more human. It isn’t easy to be funny when you are nervous, but you can learn how to do this. Don’t pretend to know more about a subject than you really do and don’t have a one topic conversation. Try to avoid religion, politics or any other controversial topic. If the conversation has a down time, this is okay and perfectly natural.

Ask her for her number. If you don’t feel comfortable doing this after such a short time, try to find out where she might be in the next few days. They you could arrange to meet her again, ‘accidentally’.

If she doesn’t give you her number, don’t be offended. If you can do it, try to build a friendship. You have nothing to lose. Another friend is always good. Once she really gets to know you, it is possible she might even ask you out.

Don’t look desperate or too eager, she will sense this. The best way to act is cool, casual and collected. Pretend you are a famous rock star or actor and act like you think he would in the same situation.

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